Choosing a therapist can feel daunting. Often, the decision to see someone is made after a prolonged period of pain and suffering, and after many other avenues have been explored. But the moment that the decision has been made- perhaps tentatively and often tinged with expectations from loved ones that ‘now you are finally going to get better’ (no pressure then!) - the process of finding the ‘right’ therapist throws up a whole, new level of complexity. Male? Female? Non-binar